Life has many ups and downs and this is what makes your life exciting. Having a life of your choice all the time will soon bore you. Life is all about setting high but realistic goals and achieving those goals. Setting high goals need hard work to achieve them and they come up with the risk of failure. To overcome such obstacles all you require is motivation.
Motivation is an
individual’s internal desire to achieve a goal in life. Motivation is a feeling
which causes a person to set a goal and willingly perform actions to achieve
Motivation cannot be found by only reading articles, listening to others speech (motivational speech) or by comparing yourself with others. The real fact about getting motivated is that motivation comes from yourself. You are the one who can motivate yourself.
So here is a list of the
best motivational tips that will change your life:
- Stop regretting
- Start believing in yourself
- Get out of your past
- Give yourself sometime
- Every day is a good day
- Work on your thoughts
- Health matters
- Meditate daily
- Happiness is a miracle
- Comparisons never work in life
- Say no to long jumps
- The power of self-dependence
- Learn till infinity
- Do not listen to others
- Work until you are satisfied
- Failure is an achievement!
1. Stop Regretting
You might have taken many decisions in your life, some may have turned
up to be great but some may have given you a bad experience. If a decision
worked well you get happy but when it doesn’t you start blaming yourself for
taking that decision.
Everything that happens in your life and around you always gives you the
best thing you deserve. It takes sometime in accepting the fact that what
happens, happens for the best. But sooner or later you will also agree to it. A
bad life comes with a bonus of a good part in your life.
There is no point of wasting your time in regretting or blaming yourself
for doing some wrong situation or decision. Instead you have to accept the fact
that it happened because it was meant to happen and you are not responsible for
it. So just keep on moving with the flow.
The best is always to come yet.
2. Start Believing in Yourself
“You have to believe in yourself. If you don't, no one else will.”Alex Oxlade-Chamberlain
no other motivation than having faith in yourself. Self-confidence is itself a
and until you don’t believe that you can do something no one else can believe
you. Instead of convincing others about your capabilities convince yourself and
ultimately others will get convinced. You should let your actions speak. If you
are sure that you want to achieve something, then no one else can ever stop you
from doing that.
have confidence on yourself, others will have confidence in you.
3. Get Out of Your Past
three phases in everyone’s life: past, present and future.
is a moment in your life that had occurred to teach you a lesson. If your past
was not according to your expectations there is no need to worry, start working
harder today and as a result your future will be according to your
start living in your past, then it will affect your future. Your past never
affects your present or future unless you let it do that. It is not possible to
change what had happened yesterday but you can always try to build a better
have to do is to start a fresh journey as “it is never too late to begin”.
4. Give Yourself Some Time
Do you remember
the last time you sat alone, talked to yourself and traced your progress?
of us the answer would be: “long before or never”.
give yourself at least 10-15 minutes every day you actually get to know what
you want. This will make you realize your mistakes and help you in correcting
don’t see any clear path towards your success all you need to do is take a pen
paper sit down for a while and divide the paper into two sections. Under the
first section write down what you want and under the other section write down
where you are today. Add your previous achievements and what you will achieve
next. Soon the path towards your goal will become clearer.
also maintain a personal diary for your everyday activities.
5. Every Day is a Good Day
morning comes with a new positivity and a new hope.
too short to be wasted on thinking about what has happened and why it happened.
Instead of complaining about something, think of the good things that have
morning before getting out of your bed take a minute to build a new hope and a
goal. There should always be a target in your life. Keep focusing on your goals
and do what you want to do.
6. Work on Your Thoughts
positive thoughts gives you positive achievements.
want to succeed in your life, you must first work on your thoughts. Having a
positive attitude towards every situation is also a key towards success. Your
thoughts are the ones that define you and your personality. Every event that
occurs in your life comes with some positive lesson. So always search for the
positive part from all the situations.
find negative people or negative thoughts coming into your mind avoid them as
much as possible. Negative thoughts not only ruin your work but also destroy
all the positivity in you. A single negative thought is enough to pull you down
to the ground.
positive, do positive activities and get positive achievements.
7. Health Matters
anyone ever tell you that “Having a healthy body motivates you?”
might sound weird but yes having a good health affects your thoughts. If you
have a healthy body your confidence will boost up and your goals will become
more clear. Being physically fit gets you ready to accept more challenges in
fitness gives you positive thoughts and makes you mentally stronger as well.
8. Meditate Daily
ages meditation has been a common mind exercise. When you meditate dopamine is
released in your mind which acts as an antidepressant. It relaxes your mind and
increases your patience. Above all it also helps you to control your anger and
on a daily basis will help you in dealing with the harder times in a better
manner. Meditation energises your body and mind in all aspects which will keep
you always motivated.
are thinking that meditation requires time, practice and effort, then you are
absolutely wrong. As a beginner you can meditate by sitting in a room (dark
room if possible), close your eyes, place your hands on your lap with the palms
facing upwards and focus on a single point. Repeating this process for 15-20
9. Happiness is a Miracle
cares about your problems. So instead of putting a sad or guilty expression on
your face keep a smile on your face all the time.
what? A smile on your face makes you look beautiful.
a smile is two-way beneficiary as it motivates you and it also spreads
happiness to those who look at you or to those who are around you.
happy opens up your mind to new thoughts and reduces your stress. When you are
happy your surrounding environment also gets happy and your work gets better.
10. Comparisons Never Work in Life
When you start
comparing yourself with others, you are actually insulting yourself. Everyone
is unique, there is no other person who is the same as you. Then how can you
compare yourself with others?
you should compare yourself with yourself. Keep a track of your progress, your
achievements, your strength, your weakness and above all what you want. If you
focus on what you want and why you want it, then no one can stop you from
achieving your goal.
your progress motivates you to set higher goals.
11. Say No to Long Jumps
want to reach at the top of the building you must start by climbing the first
stair. When you start by taking small steps towards success you won’t even
realize when you completed your entire journey.
reach the highest goal of your life you will have to start by achieving the
smallest goal first. These small achievements will always keep you motivated
and push you to achieve other goals. Moreover, this will make you believe that
the journey to your success is not as hard as you think. If you start by taking
a long route and fail, then this could demotivate you. Achieving smaller goals
first will give you bigger achievements.
clear the base first.
12. The Power of Self-Dependence
someone who supports or helps you all the time is great. But being totally
dependent on others makes you weak.
us fail just because we depend on others. One should always be self-dependent.
Working as an individual makes you stronger and this makes you aware of your
capabilities. When you work on your own you challenge yourself.
comes from your inner self and not from others. So always depend on yourself.
13. Learn till Infinity
no age limit in learning. No one is ever perfect so never stop learning. Always
welcome all the suggestions and lessons you get in your life. At some point in
life when you feel that you have now learnt everything and you don’t need to
ask anyone or you do not need others suggestions then your progress will also
all about learning something new every day and all the time.
never has an end point, it is infinite.
14. Do Not Listen to Others
today’s world you will find people that criticize your work and achievements at
each stage. These people have no concern in you or your work they just need
someone to play with. They can never hold on other’s success.
thought of what people will think or say should never enter your mind. This
makes no difference in your life. What you believe and what you want is all
that matters. There are lots of things that others say but you should keep
focussing on what you want. If you stop to look back at such useless thoughts,
you will be compromising with yourself. Always let your work and achievements
speak better than your words.
15. Work Until you are Satisfied
in your work enhances the quality of your work. The more satisfied you are with
your work the higher you reach.
what you want to do and giving it your 100% gives you internal satisfaction.
And when you are satisfied with what you are doing you will never get bored of
that work. If you do what you want, you will always get that motivating feeling
of doing and achieving more and more in your life.
16. Failure is an Achievement!
who fail today, succeed tomorrow.
biggest motivation is none other than your failure. The moment you fail in
achieving something you feel destroyed and it becomes hard for you to believe
or overcome that fact. But once you accept your failure you accept another
challenge and that is how you can succeed. Failure itself is a lesson. When you
achieve something after failing multiple times the value of your achievement
gets more recognizable.
Failure always comes with a lesson. All you have to do is to master that lesson.
Hey, you found the list too long and tough?
Do not worry start from one point, keep adding other qualities from time to time and one day you will master these tips.
Last updated: 1st June, 2019